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3 tips for dealing with a shocking divorce

| Oct 15, 2018 | Uncategorized

When most people think about the possibility of getting a divorce in the future, they usually expect it to be a gradual process that comes with many warning signs. However, this is not always the reality. Sometimes, divorce comes as a complete surprise.

If you are dealing with the shock of receiving divorce papers, you may feel like your whole world is turning upside down. You are likely in a state of panic and confusion. Despite the turmoil you are experiencing right now, you can get through this with the right help. Here are some tips on how to handle a sudden divorce

1. Get support

It is crucial to seek help while you try to understand what is happening in your life. Lean on friends and family members who can be supportive. You may even want to think about counseling. A therapist may be able to help you sort through the tragedy of losing your marriage.

2. Act right away

You must take action to protect your interests during a divorce, and you have a limited time to respond to the divorce papers. Legal representation is a must, as the process may include asset division, support payments and custody decisions.

3. Gather financial documents

Dividing property is one of the most consequential aspects of a divorce. The only way to get a fair settlement is to know your financial situation first. Access and organize all of your financial information and documents, including bank statements, tax returns, mortgages and safety deposit boxes. Once you have a clear understanding of your finances, you can negotiate for a fair property division process. 

When your spouse blindsides you with divorce papers, you may find it difficult to function and figure out all the tasks you need to accomplish. But when you surround yourself with the right people, you can handle this and rebuild your life.

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